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Parenting …A serious issue !!!

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Child is the reflection of his parents .It is the genetic material which transfer parent’s trait to their child .
This is a scientific definition. But now a days we see children are very much different from their parents. Parents face lots of anxiety now a days …. due to behaviour of their children . They often used to say that
(a) child is too moody (b) child is not doing well in studies (c) child is hyper in his behaviour …..
In other words we can say parents feel that child is not up to their expectations.
Child in itself is a complete human . He absorb all the things which he observe around him. What ever parents serve , knowingly or unknowingly , he or she is always influenced by those behaviour .
Relation between parents affect the relation of child with society .
Arguments among parents affect psychology of children . He become less creative , less responsible and more stubborn.
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One case to share here – A couple along with their 15 year kid came to me regarding his selection of stream in class 11th . Very affluent family . Kid wants to know about future prospect of each stream , but father constantly saying – औ लड़के , no tension …चाहे कुछ मत कर मैं हूँ ना …बहुत पैसा है अपने पास !!!
I was surprised by seeing the way how the father was behaving .
I asked him ….आप कब तक हैं , आपका पैसा कब तक है …
My words strikes straight on his mind …he become speechless.
Parenting means to make your kid aware of future challenges , never make them handicap by saying that “why you fear when I am here” , instead make them capable of conquering every fear .
Take care of following points –
1. Love your child as much as you can , but also make them understand that world will not love them in same way as his parents.
2.Educate them in a proper way , because you are not living forever with them .
3. Never show overflow of money for them , money will always drag them back.
4. Never argue in front of them , it can badly hurt their psychology .
5.Never underestimate their imagination . If you use some low words against any one , they will also use them.
6.Never share your ego with them , make them humble and powerful .
7.Show them how to keep everyone together . Avoid separatism in front of them .

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Rights through Riots 

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  “Rights through Riots “Transporter strike …. Strike ….strike only strike …. 

This is democracy ….everybody has rights to go on strike .

Every one wants his/her rights through riots .

Nobody wants to perform his/her duties …. No concern with the sufferings of others …. No concern with public properties … Only strike …. Strike ….and strikes.
Government on the other hand leaves the country in the hands of these strikers …. Remember …

.”सही फ़ैसल भी ग़लत साबित हो जाता है , अगर सही वक़्त पर ना लिया जाये ”
A young boy from Gujarat ,who is under age for such activity boldly announced dandi March .Because no one is going to take responsibility of other’s suffering .Neither government and administration is in hurry to fix responsibility of such act. 

This is only due to the inefficient education system of our country . Government made policy , not to fail a student till class 8th. Till the age of 14 year we all know a child learn most of the essential emotions of life and use them for his entire life . 

Our education system is not producing fighters , fighters of situations , this system is producing gainers only . Emotionally unstable children , who can’t analyse situation in his/her own ways. They are always dependent on other views , they are sailed by wind not by their attitude. 

Subsidies is good but , only where it is needed. In medicines govt is not doing much for life saving medicines , but subsidise electricity even for those who never deserve it. 

These political game are making robots in our country , which are directed by lucrative offers by others.

“Strike shouldn’t strike other people, it should strike only bad policies ”

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Defeat your fears!!

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Some times you might have thought that what you aspire for ,didn’t happen !You worked hard , 24 x 7 , but didn’t get what you expect !

You tried many ways for success , but didn’t find any path of success!

Seeing other people who are less efficient than you , getting more than you !

Many times this happens with many of hard working guys. I saw many of my students suffering from this trauma . 

Tell me , ever you saw sun is doing efforts for its identity ?

Ever sky needs any recognition for its height ?

Did Sea make any noise for his depth?

I am sure you all know the answer is no ….. Never ….. Ever !!!!

So for what you all underestimate your efforts . You may lack recognition now but it never means that you will remain un- noticed for ever.

In my opinion keep on working , hard working. Your Rays will automatically define your height .

Attitude matters. What you are doing and how you are doing decide the length of the time for which you can retain your success . Work to win ….not to defeat . 

Defeat your fears , raise your voice and have a firm belief in nature. Our Nature has a rule …. Nothing can remain un-noticed who can make difference .

Modify your ways of working . Instead of changing your path , change your attitude.
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Real story – Value of education ..

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A real incident I want to share with all of you -A had a talk with one person recently . His family was very well doing in past . But after the demise of his father , his business was badly affected . The person was not much educated . He was not able to revive his business , and now he sold his house and is very low in terms of money . 

He was not much educated to start another business or to get a good job . 

Now a days he is working as assistant in a store . 

In a very sorrow mood , he requested me to educate his child at low cost .

He told me that he just wanna educate his child ,so that he should not face such situation in his life ….

” The person understand the value of education more than any one else , but so late ”

… Friends , remember this is the education , which always helps us in our hard time , education makes us independent . It is the only tool by which we can make life comfortable .

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